Tuesday, May 02, 2006

Ok. time for an update.. I'm getting people bugging me to blog liao.. Haha.. what am i supposed to blog about? I dunno seriously.. So many things in life happened and that I don't really know when to start..

I'm beginning to have a different perspective towards relationships now.. Many a time, it's always good to start as friends, understand each other as friends and enjoy the friendship before going on to the next stage of the relationship. However many of us will always want to go by our emotions to rush into a relationship with someone we like or feel closed to. Well, it's not like I'd never been through that before. It all seems appropriate and normal that it's alright we go by our emotions to decide what should be done, but considering the consequences, most often it wouldn't be a good decision to go by our emotions to decide our fate. Haha..

Why do I say that? It's always at the beginning when we think everything with the other partner is so perfect but as the decision to commitis made, problems will start to surface and you'll find yourself going towards a dead end whereby emotions will soon die off and no longer you see the relationship as a commitment but a burden. So perhaps strictly to say, there's no true love that existed right from the beginning, only puppy love?

True love, is a form whereby it enables both parties to be committed to each other without feeling the burden of how to carry on their future days with each other, and problems may be solved because there's mutual understanding of each other. It's like how Jesus exhibit the love of God to His people and even 2000 years later, such love still exists because there's always room for forgiveness, and love will take over the hatred in the hearts, to melt down and soften the hardened hearts of man.

Well, one thing I wanna point out is to really do what is appropriate and that your priorities should be right, like if it's the right time to go into a relationship and whether you are ready for one. How do you determine if you are ready? In the areas of finances, personal commitment towards relationships and stability in character etc. So many things. Of course none of us are perfect but you really got to know when's the right time to do what's necessary.

Seriously I'm not sure why I'm talking about all this but I got a feeling it's regarding how I feel towards one person and the decision to move on that God wants to tell me.

Well, can that be considered a revelation? Lol..

it got me home
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If you wander off too far, my love will get you home.
If you follow the wrong star, my love will get you home.
If you ever find yourself, lost and all alone,
get back on your feet and think of me, my love will get you home.
Boy, my love will get you home.

If the bright lights blinds your eyes, my love will get you home.
If your troubles break your stride, my love will get you home.
If you ever find yourself, lost and all alone,
get back on your feet and think of me, my love will get you home.
Boy, my love will get you home.

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If its only you to blame, my love will get you home.
If you ever find yourself, lost and all alone,
get back on your feet and think of me, my love will get you home.
Boy, my love will get you home

If you ever find yourself, lost and all alone,
get back on your feet and think of me, my love will get you home

Boy, my love will get you home
Boy, my love will get you home