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Saturday, February 18, 2006

Every thing changed since 1 year ago. My perspective for friendship or relationship had changed quite a real bit. My perspective was that regardless if people are there for you or they are not, it doesn't matter as long as every where you go, you have someone to talk to and all that matters was company. Quite superficial right? No matter how they used to mock at me or bully me, I won't say anything because all I needed was their company so as not to experience loneliness.

Anyway so after I got to know the guys in my CG currently. I start to see that friends do include care and concern, but all out of the motivation to bless to care for the person. All out of love. So now then, my kind of friends ain't those that just come and go, but people whom I look up too and they will always be there to advice me and they won't make use of you, their only purpose is to befriend you to build you up and make sure you improve to become a better person. Sounds impossible for such people to exist? Well, I have just got this kind of people to support me, the fantastic people that can change my life totally with God.

Of course my life also revolves around the friends outside church, like those in school. I went through my rough piece of relationships and friendships, I lose friends at the expense of my own ignorance and I lose the respect. Even as a leader I tend not to uphold the values I believe in at times. Well, all these were a past. The friends that I have now, I'm going to make them last regardless of what happens but of course it takes 2 hands to clap. It's the belief that friends can last forever and friendships can be maintained that is the most crucial. So whatever I have now, I'm going to treasure it. Let this day be the day when I would start afresh to make things right for now.

God call on us not to be loners but be team players, to be in fellowship with one another, to press in into each other's lives to support each other. There's no such thing as one-man show unless you are really that capable but I believe even you will have a limit. But as a team, many things can happen, miracles can take place! So among friends, there's nothing but advantages.


One thing to highlight though, about loneliness and being lonely which are totally 2 different things. Loneliness is a state whereby things are done without a purpose and person is unable to concentrate. But being alone is different.
Being alone means you are able to concentrate to become productive to work. So when you are alone, learn to identify what state are you in. If you are being lonely, good for you because you know that your friends will still be around for you but if you are feeling loneliness. Please seek help because you will be in a state of insecurity of not knowing if your friends are here with you.

Hope my above entry will prove useful to people out there. Work hard on making your friendships a success!

it got me home
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